Apa yang membuat anak-anak tetap berada di dalam ruangan? Survei menyebutkan, takut penculikan adalah salah satu penyebab yang utama, diikuti oleh kekhawatiran anak-anak akan tertabrak mobil, dan di-bullying.
“Ketakutan tersebut telah menciptakan kumpulan orang tua yang sangat mengekang yang membesarkan seorang ‘pengecut’ yang tidak mampu mengatasi naik turunnya masalah kehidupan karena mereka umumnya tidak punya pengalaman seperti itu,” ujar Hara Estroff Marano, penulis buku A Nation of Wimps: The High Cost of Invasive Parenting, yang berbasis di NewYork, Amerika Serikat.
Menurut Marano : "Rumah dari suatu keberanian telah memberikan jalan bagi rumah ketakutan, yang diberi judul, risiko penolakan, dan rasa narsistik,"
Although the narrative of the experts about the play is very important for mental and physical children, research shows that the amount of time children play today has decreased significantly. One survey cited Gray asked a nationally representative sample of parents who regularly track the activities of their children on the days chosen at random in 1981 and another in 1997.
The researchers found that children aged 6 to 8 years in 1997 has decreased the time to play about 25% of the same age group in 1981. Other studies also suggest, about 70% of mothers reported playing outdoors every day, only 31% said that their children do well.
So what makes the children remain in the room? Survey says, fear of kidnapping is one of the main causes, followed by fears the children will be hit by a car, and on-bullying.
"Fear has created a collection of very old people who raised curb a 'coward' who are unable to cope with the ups and downs of life issues because they generally do not have any experience like that," says Hara Estroff Marano, author of A Nation of WIMPs: The High Cost of Invasive Parenting, based in New York, United States.
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