The reason children lie (Alasan Anak Berbohong)

Ada beberapa alasan mengapa kata-kata bohong keluar dari mulut anak Anda. Pertama, Karena ketakutan. Biasanya, buah hati takut terhadap konsekuensi yang akan dihadapi, tepatnya takut mendapat hukuman, sehingga memilih berbohong untuk menutupi tindakannya. Hal ini terjadi, umumnya karena Anda dan pasangan bersikap sangat tegas dan galak dalam menerapkan peraturan di rumah sehingga si kecil pun jadi takut mengatakan hal sebenarnya.

Yang kedua, ketiga, dan keempat dilewatin ya.. langsung saja yang terakhir.

Yang terakhir adalah karena rasa sayang. Kerap kali anak-anak berbohong hanya untuk menyenangkan hati orangtuanya. Tindakan ini dilakukan karena didasari rasa sayang yang tulus, sehingga takut sampai mengecewakan orangtua.

There are several reasons why the words lie out of your child's mouth. First, because of fear. Typically, the baby was afraid of the consequences to be faced, rather afraid of punishment, so chose to lie to cover up his actions. This happens, usually because you and your partner to be very firm and stern in applying the rules of the house so the little one was so afraid to tell the truth.

The second reason is to protect other children. Especially teenagers, they generally have a loyalty and family values ​​are high with the gang, aka his playmate. Code of ethics that there is a gang defended under any circumstances, to prove lasting friendships. This bias turns worrisome when they just do not realize that they stand for is a mistake.

The third reason just to spice up the story in order to become more attractive for parents and others. Knowingly or not, children ages toddler through elementary school, still likes to put their imaginations in the telling of an event, so the result may be spelled out is a story full of lies.

The next reason, lying as an automatic response. For example you ask, "Who broke the vase?" Suddenly your child can answer, "Not me, ma'am."

Then, there is also reason to lie to avoid something. For example, when asked if it was homework, the child will answer already, just to play safe.

The latter is due to affection. Often the children to lie just to please her parents. This action is performed as a foundation of genuine love, so afraid to disappoint their parents.